Dear Dr. Stanton:
I will be a specialist who has been married for two decades. My wedding and family members might be referred to as idyllic. We have sex that is healthy, we communicate and I also have always been affectionate and devoted to my wedding and family members. As a specialist We have had clients that are many and relying on infidelity and also this training and experience isn’t assisting me personally within my situation.
Let me reveal my situation (my spouse will abide by my synopsis). I consequently found out per month ago that my partner happens to be tangled up in an event with another guy for 3 ? years. It is stated by her was over into the summer but she had been caught by buddies having a meal with this particular guy into the fall. This guy is 40-50 pounds. Obese, noisy, abrasive, opinionated and contains a issue with liquor. He could be a high roller but is disliked by numerous people. I might add that he’s perhaps not appealing even in probably the most charitable of contacts.
By contrast I have always been the age that is same this man, we work away and stay in shape I am more on the attractive part than maybe not and I also play good with everybody else. My spouse states like him, b) he was gregarious and opinionated and very different from me that it was her idea to initiate the affair, she found herself attracted to this man because a) her friends didn’t. Continue reading “Why did my partner have an affair?”